I introduced Ichiro san to Tomomi san and to a certain extent promoted the start of their relationship. They asked me to take on the formal role of “go between or matchmaker” at their very traditional shintoist wedding at the Chusa Shrine in Togakushi. What a privilege!
The ceremony is complex and thank heavens we have a full rehearsal the day before.
I have two roles, first in front of the altar, I receive a decorated branch. This I manipulate in a prescribed fashion and make a wish. I then re- manipulate the branch and lay it on a table in front of the altar. I bow twice, clap twice, bow again and return to my stool. Towards the end, I have to make the congratulatory toast to the bride and groom – in Japanese! Amazingly I don’t blow it.
So this was, as they say in California – unreal. I am so honoured that Ichiro and Tomomi asked me to play a role at their wedding. I don’t think that many Gaijins get to do this.
Above all I wish them every happiness! They are exceptional people.
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It all looks a quite wonderful occasion. Shame there was no video of your branch manoeuvres or speech but, hey, that’s asking for extra cream! Some great photos. You look great in your outfit – as do the happy couple. Wish them all the best from me, please.
So what happened next? Was there another feasting opportunity or did the happy couple head off together into their future?
Amazing! No party, just another incredible meal prepared by Yuko san. Next day we went birdwatching in he mountains. Very grown up.
Extraordinary stuff – looks to be a very serious ceremony.
Ann and I were dressed up in Kyoto (Shogun/Geisha) a very clever system of layering.
Like Alan, I hope there was a party
What a wonderful moment! Tomomi and Ichiro are indeed exceptional persons! We wish them a long life full of enriching encounters!
Neil, you are a lucky gaijin to have been an important part of this!
Martine and Albrecht
Lucky me!
Fantastic! Congratulations to Ichiro-san and Tomomi-san. And what an experience for you too.
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